But I've been told that anything that's worth it never is. I'm counting on that!
Last year, Hubby and I had decided (and I admit that it was mostly I) that enough was enough with that damn ex of his. Its ridiculous to call your child on the phone and be told every excuse under the sun as to why he can't come to the phone or heaven forbid return a call. Acknowledge a package that was sent. How about a call or card on Father's Day? Birthday? Hubby has never forgotten his; is it too much to expect a child (a pre-teen?) to remember? I don't know the answer to those questions. This is just concerning phone calls. Don't even get me started on visitation, or lack thereof.
We have done everything we can think of to have a quality relationship because we learned along time ago we were never going to get quantity.
Its disheartening, discouraging and demoralizing. Its parental alienation at its finest. Subtle enough to do massive damage yet still legal enough to pass under the radar. It sucks. I saw what it did to my husband and his son. It was horrific.
More on that as I process what went down. Now, that I've vented a bit. I need to clean the house!
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